Wanted: boyfriend.
Qualifications: A fun guy. The guy who is not what he seems. The one who thinks I'm the cutest thing ever, one who doesn't make me cry, or make my heart hurt, who can just sit with me and be ok with that, who can make me laugh till I cry, one worth being [just a little] jealous over, one with the personality that shines above all the rest. I want a guy who thinks just sittin' around, listening to me babble on about nothing is worth their time, who loves my bad habits, who will sit and let me read Cosmo to them [and pretend to like it, even though I know you actually do], thinks I have the best taste in music/food/movies, etc. and helps me in the kitchen when I attempt to be the next Gia de Laurentiis. Where is the guy who will tell me I'm beautiful even when I look like a train wreck, who doesn't complain when all I want is to cuddle, even if it's all afternoon, will make the stupid jokes, even if I've heard them a thousand times [but still find them funny], one who can surprise me, one who can make me feel safe. Where is the guy who will appreciate my love for art, thinks that my addiction to scrapbooking is totally legit, will let me pay [occasionally], knows the right time to agree to disagree, loves to climb trees, will take me on picnics, and hold my hand and kiss my forehead. More than these things, though, I need a man. A man who can match wits with me, stimulate my mind, be my equal, offer good conversation, advice and genuine-ness aplenty. A man who can see past the hurt in my eyes, and wants to be the person to fix it [even though I'll try to persuade you I don't need fixing]. A man who can give me my space, yet knows when to be there for me, and tries to take care of me even though I'll fight him about it. And lastly, one who doesn't think of this as a long list of unrealistic qualities in a man, but thinks he fits the bill. =]
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